I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Cancer's a bitch and a half, and I hate that it took your man away from you and your babies. I haven't seen you since we were 20-something coworkers, but I started following your blog after I heard the news, and I have to say, your strength and your spirit are unbelievable. Not to mention humbling. My thoughts, my prayers, and many many good vibes to you and your family.